Louise salutes holiday film clips: The Ref.

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If you have to spend time at home with family this Christmas, and that doesn't always sound like the easiest thing to do -- and ---

If you and your spouse don't always see eye to eye with each other about the kids and your parents, then here's your movie.

Dennis Leary and Judy Davis aren't just funny, they're razor sharp-hilarious in this film.  

In my personal best movies book, this one is a classic.  But, you do have to have a cynical side to enjoy it.  If you are zen and yoga and light and love, then this probably isn't your kind of flick.   But, if you find family issues as thorny and challenging as I do, then I highly recommend this movie.

Let me put it like this, when it came out it made me laugh so much I actually went out to buy a copy.

And that was when one bought them as tapes. As in VHS.

That was then, this is YouTube.

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Prince Gomolvilas said…
OMG, I owned this on VHS at one time too! Judy Davis: "Why don't you eat...ME?" Ha ha ha ha ha!
November 30, 2008 at 10:53 PM
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